"Two Kinds" Mother & Daughter Conflict

In the conflict between Jing-mei and her mother, her mother is always wanting her daughter to do what she wants her to do. Almost like she never listens to what her daughter has to say. For example, her mother has her doing so much tests, that Jing-Mei hates takinig. When Jinig-Mei forgets something, her mother gets disappointed. this shos that Jing-Mei wants to do something different than what her mother tells or wants her to do. Another example is when her mother was watching TV, she was amused of the piano music that was playing. The mother showed Jing-Mei the schedule that she will have. Time that showed when she will be practicing playing the piano. Jing-Mei didn't want to do it. This shows that the mother really doesn't listen to what Jing-Mei has to say. When Jing-Mei performed in front of audience, she was doing good until she screwed up. In addition, the mother was diappoinmted in her. This shows that the mother wants her to practice really hard and to be successful. In this case I don't know whose side I would take.